Monday, July 25, 2011

Awww...An Abortionist Sob Story

Awww...this "poor, humble man."  At least that's the message you'd get reading this vomit-inducing Washington Post piece about murderer (late-term abortionist) Leroy Carhart.  It's so disgustingly sympathetic, but I guess I shouldn't be surprised.  It's the mainstream media.  Read the sob section, "From ashes, a mission."  After I vomited, I read this:
"Carhart, who once dreamed of becoming a hand surgeon, said he witnessed how abortions often went bad when he was a medical resident in Philadelphia in the 1970s. In emergency rooms, he saw women who had tried to self-abort with knitting needles and coat hangers. Many required serious surgery; some died."
So instead of actually helping these women by getting them post-abortion help and joining the pro-life cause to help women not have abortions in the first place, he decided to "help" them continue to kill their children unnaturally and with dangerous procedures and instruments??  Brilliant logic.  My husband commented, "If you are trying to abort your baby using sewing needles or coat hangers, isn't that a sign of mental illness [or at least desperation]?  Normal people wouldn't do that.  We shouldn't be facilitating crazy."  He should be getting these women real help.

Not to mention, the whole "coat hanger/back alley" argument is a total sham.  Before 1973, women got abortions in the same clinics they get them now - it's just that after Roe vs. Wade, the doctor was allowed to legally put the word "abortion" on his sign.  Oh, and remember this story?  How is this any safer than a back alley?  It's not like most abortion clinics are regulated any more than their "back alley" straw men!  And why, if the abortion lobby is so concerned with womens' health and safety, does it fight, tooth and nail, any abortion clinic regulation laws that are presented??  Hmmm...

Then there's this line:
"“I decided I wasn’t going to just be a provider, I was going to be an activist.”"
Oh what a passion for the cause!

And this quote, from an anonymous abortion provider:
"Abortion providers say they often feel isolated because of the stigma surrounding abortion..."
THE STIGMA?!?  Way to trivialize the murder of innocent children!!!  I don't think it's the stigma people are angry about!  It's the murdering!!  God help us.
"All the late abortions Carhart has done in Germantown have involved fetuses with anomalies, he said. One patient last week was just under 21 weeks pregnant; the fetus had spina bifida and would have been paralyzed from the navel down, he said."
Oohh...well clearly that baby is better off dead then.  What a compassionate man!  "Saving" a baby from paralyzation!  No one has ever lived a full life with that before!!  I mean, it's not like you can be paralyzed and the President of the United States or anything!  Oh, wait...

Not only does Carhart come across as some poor, targeted old man grandfather just trying to help women, but of course the pro-lifers are made to sound like they're lurking around corners waiting to jump out of the bushes with AK-47's pointed at this guy.  Let me tell you - I know the Maryland pro-life group and they are the humble ones.

The Maryland Coalition for Life recently opened a pro-life counseling center directly across the parking lot from Carhart's office - much like the Texas Coalition for Life that Abby Johnson fled to when she decided to leave PP.  They're living paycheck to paycheck just to pay the rent for this place, but they know it's what God has called them to do.  So if you can possibly help them out with a small donation, I know they'd be eternally grateful.  But as always, they need our prayers.  As the WaPo article states, this man who kills children at full-term is looking to train some new doctors, which would make the Coalition's job even harder. And with VA's amazing new abortion clinic regulation laws (Praise God!), patients will likely migrate to MD for their late-term abortions.

So please, pray for this organization and if possible, donate.  They're a group of amazing men & women putting themselves on the front lines to really help women.  And they need us.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Two Exciting Things Happened Today!

First, I had my 20 week ultrasound this morning.  I was a little nervous because it was a follow-up from my 16 week to check on my previa and to do a Level 2 u/s, which just takes a lot more measurements.  She took close to 100 pictures!  Took forever.  Luckily everything was a-ok with Baby C, and the tech told me my previa had moved and was out of the way!  But...then the doc came in and double checked.  I had gone to the restroom before she came in and apparently when I emptied my bladder, it turned out my previa had not moved as much as they thought.  But the doc did say that it moved a bit (just not totally), and is confident it will be out of the way by my next u/s, in 4 weeks.  It's supposed to be 2cm away and it's 1.72cm.  Phew!  My OB had also said that previa can affect the growth of the baby, but the u/s doc assured me that that isn't the kind of previa I have.  Well, she said it in far more technical terms than that, but I was relieved!  At worst now, I'll have to have a C-section.  Which isn't preferable, but after the way the first few weeks of this pregnancy started, if this is the worst that can happen, I'll take it.  Thanks so much for all your prayers.

Secondly, I'm thrilled at today's news that Archbishop Chaput has been name Archbishop of Philadelphia!  Bishop Chaput has, for several years, been one of my pro-life heroes.  I can't believe he'll be just up the road from me!  (Of course, I wish he was coming to the Diocese of Wilmington.  A girl can dream, right?)  I commented to my husband today that we'll have to make a trip up to see him say mass sometime.

While on the elliptical machine at the gym today, I was reading the captioning of Archbishop Rigali's statements on the announcement.  One line troubled me.  Perhaps I'm just being way too sensitive and hormonal, or perhaps there's really something behind it.  What do you think?  In his statement, he said, "I have tried, always, throughout my ministry, to be faithful to the ideal of episcopal ministry.  If I have offended anyone in anyway, I am deeply sorry.  I apologize for any weaknesses on my part representing Christ in the Church worthily and effectively."

I don't know...upon revisiting it, perhaps I'm just being sensitive.  But does it sound like he's apologizing for evangelizing his faith?  Maybe it was just a sincere apology for any human mistakes.  But when I read it at the gym, it came across differently.

I guess I'll let that one go and just enjoy the fact that I may at some point soon, be able to attend a mass celebrated by Archbishop Chaput!

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Yep. Pro-lifers don't care about women.

The following is a story I recently received from our 40 Days for Life coordinator:

Back in May one of our parishes celebrated their first Mass for the Unborn, which had a two-fold purpose: to remember and pray for those babies lost to abortion, and to bless those mothers who are expecting, and their babies.

A mother and daughter who were present at the Mass, left church and the mother went to a store near their home with her husband.  They pulled their car into the parking lot and saw a very pregnant girl sitting on the curb. Commenting to her husband that she had just left a Mass for the Unborn, the woman recognized that this was unusual and there was clearly something wrong here.  They gave each other a knowing glance, then walked over to ask if they could help her.

She told them that she was temporarily homeless, 38 weeks pregnant, thought she was in labor and had no one to help her. Without hesitation, the couple took her to the hospital where she was told that she was not in labor. Further discussion revealed that because of the circumstances under which she got pregnant, she wanted to give the baby for adoption, but didn't know how to go about it and had made no arrangements. 

So the woman requested that a social worker from the hospital talk to the pregnant girl before leaving to give her resources to make contact with an adoption agency and get the information she needed.  Before leaving her, the couple gave her money for a hotel for the weekend and made contact with Adoptions from the Heart to start the adoption process.  They then helped her find a more permanent place to stay after the weekend. Before departing, they gave her their cell phone numbers so she could call them for the help she would still need. 

The following Wednesday she called, feeling she was in labor again, and the woman took her back to the hospital.  She asked the woman to be her support coach, and after a few hours she gave birth to a healthy baby boy.  The woman was so humbled and grateful to the Holy Spirit that she was able to be a witness to the birth of this beautiful baby boy. The baby has now been adopted by a wonderful couple who had been waiting for several years for a baby.

The birth father of the baby also asked the woman and her husband what church they attend and they invited him to come to Mass with them.
 
The mother has since been offered a job and is looking for permanent housing.  She knows in her heart that the best gift she could have given her baby was a wonderful home with parents who can give her baby everything he deserves in life, and even in her desperate situation, she chose life for her baby.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Here's where I am

My room is somehwere in the back.
Some of you might know it to look more like this...


It was 118 the day I arrived.  Yesterday we had a massive sandstorm, then a monsoon.  Welcome to Phoenix, Nicole C!

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Finally - the vacation picture post!

Finally, a few shots from our trip to Indiana and Chicago!  Figured I better at least post them before I have more to post from Phoenix next week!

On Monday we visited the small local zoo.  Beth and her kids came up and met us!  Love blogger meet-ups!

Jack, M, and JP.  JP was not too into getting a photo!


Fighting over who gets their hand pecked by a giant emu.
On Tuesday we went down to Indy to meet a high school friend of mine and my cousin at a baseball game!


Massive cheese

Rolling down the hill, which the security nazi kept yelling at us for.  It's the LAWN seats!

Go Indians!
The next day we visited Great Grandma...


Then the climax of the week - the trip to the "big city!"

"Howdy Pard!" ~ Lego Woody

Lego Darth


That's a real background! Totally looks like a green screen!

Go Cubbies!

Future Chicago fireman?
Mastering the art of chopsticks.  He's a natural.

Lake view

View from the top of the Hancock Building

Yeah

Top of the Navy Pier ferris wheel!
And finally, farm day!  I'm so honored that this was one of the top 5 days of M's life.  Although I'm not so naive as to think it was because she got to hang out with ME!  I think it had more to do with the little oinking creatures...

Some of the girls were a little shy...

...and some jumped right in!

But not to be outdone...

Ok, this is probaby pig #312387 that she held.  And yes...she's kissing it.

The piggy barn

Seriously...she was fearless

Grampa Farmer Lehe.  Also known to some of you as Representative Lehe!

Getting their tractor licenses.  They'll be haulin' beans by harvest.

He used to be able to stand upright in this.  *sad face*

Goat feeding

Blogger meet-up!  Megan, Beth, me, and Jenny!

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Vacation EnviroBible School

I had two other posts in my head that I was debating on writing up today, including a fun picture post about our trip to Indiana.  Until I picked up Jack from bible school.  And got very, very angry.

We all loved our church's bible school last year.  They use a curriculum that apparently protestant churches also use, because I've seen it advertised in front of protestant churches.  However, last year, they still managed to make it very Catholic-specific.  This year they made it religion-specific too.  Unfortunately the religion they have chosen is Environmentalism.

Is it a wonder we haven't actually attended this church in probably 6 months?  We're still officially registered there, but after several protestant-type rituals were instated (another post in itself), we decided to stop going to mass there.  Not to mention the fighting I had to do when I was the leader of the pro-life committee.  Fighting.  PRO-LIFE committee.  Need I say more?

In fact, I recently learned that the current pro-life director there was refused a table at the church's summer carnival by the carnival director!!  He told her it was an event for the whole community, so she couldn't have a pro-life exhibit!!  Nevermind that the carnival is called HOLY FAMILY Summerfest.  And that the proceeds benefit HOLY FAMILY.  It's not called Newark, Publicly-Funded Summerfest (which, ironically, Delaware Right to Life is allowed to exhibit at!)!!  Thankfully, our priest (surprisingly) went to bat for the committee and got us a able.  But I digress...

Back to V(E)BS.  This is the first V(E)BS since a nun (non-habit-wearing, liberal nun) took over the Religious Ed department at our church.  Last year's, like I said, was more Catholic-centered and mainly just fun for the kids, while learning some bible stories.  Little did I know that this year we'd be entering the realm of secular enviro-craziness at bible school.

At the end of every day, the children and leaders gather in the church hall for an end-of-day ceremony type thing where they sing some songs, get a little lesson, and watch a slideshow of pictures from the day.  Well today's started out like any other.  Until un-nun starts blathering about the environment.  My ears perked up to see where this was going.  Then she starts talking about St. Francis, and I thought, "Ok, I'm on board with that.  We are called to be stewards of the Earth, after all."  But...it didn't stop at being stewards.  She started rambling on about specifics, like recycling (ok, that's good), using plastic water bottles (ok, not so bad), lecturing your parents about using only cold water in the washer (wait a tick...), and talking to your parents about biking and carpooling to work (is Nancy Pelosi now the religious ed director at Holy Family?).  I was *this close* to raising my hand and asking her if she could address the effects of artificial and chemical birth control on the environment (and humans, for that matter).

Then she starts talking about some St. Francis pledge that they're sending home with the kids.  She literally said, "St. Francis talked about recycling."  Ummm...did recycling exist during St. Francis' time?  I'm no historian, but....ok.

So I pick up Jack and he hands me his St. Francis pledge (I'm already furious. It may seem like I'm overreacting, but there was far more discussed than what I'm remembering right now).  It's distributed by the Catholic Climate Covenant.  The title at the top says, "Take ACTION! Reduce your carbon footprint!"  Sounds fishy to me.  I call Mike.  He looks it up online.  Sure enough...a bunch of liberal enviro-blather.

Oookkkaaayyy.  Now I'm really angry.  Here's the thing:  I'm totally fine with talking about being stewards of the Earth.  Don't be wasteful.  Turn off the water while you brush your teeth.  Don't litter.  Be kind to animals (except when you're hungry.  Come on, just kidding!).  But here are a few of the bullet points from this worksheet (the "eye-opener" for the day, that kids are told to share with their parents at home):
  • Turn off lights and appliances when you leave the room (fine, you're saving energy)
  • Unplug your cell phone when it's charged (ditto above)
  • Replace incadescent light bulbs with energy efficient bulbs (wait, this sounds like that Big Brother policy they're pushing in Congress.  Not to mention, those "energy-efficient" bulbs are FULL of mercury.)
  • Turn off water when shaving, brushing teeth, etc. (fine, don't be wasteful, I'm on board)
  • Buy local and/or organic food (don't even get me started on the organic lie)
  • Organize an environmental awareness day at your church or school (should we preach stewardship or pseudo-science?)
  • Eat less meat: the UN concludes that "the livestock sector emerges as one of the top two or three most significant contributors to the most serious environmental problems," including climate change
And there it is..."climate change."  I knew there was an agenda here.  And referencing the UN?  Clearly this is about a liberal agenda...not St. Francis.

Oh, and one of my favorite bullet points says this, "Write to your lawmakers and elected officials and urge them to act with urgency and put care for Creation, the poor, and the common good ahead of short-term special interests."  Besides my hatred of the term "common good" (it's so often misconstrued in horrid ways and used to justify moral evils, most commonly abortion), I find it ironic that they're calling for children to write their legislators about environmental issues.  However, in my experience, getting permission in church to urge people to write their legislators on life issues is often a losing battle.  Interesting priorities.  No mention of the sanctity of human life, but of course we have to respect the sanctity of the environmental agenda.

This whole St. Francis pledge thing can be found at the Catholic Climate Covenant's website.  Not surprisingly, you'll find all the usual liberal policies.  Seriously.  Jack brought this home.  He's FIVE.

Again, and I can't stress enough, I'm fine with the preaching of stewardship and I love St. Francis.  But this didn't even come out of the bible school curriculum that they're using!  It's clearly this un-nun's little pet project that she wants to push onto everyone without their consent.  I told my husband, they should rename vacation bible school, "Vacation Environmental Reeducation Camp."

The main concern is that this is the entirely wrong venue for this little project.  It's literally something they could have learned (and certainly do) in public school!  It's shoved down kids' throats at public schools and secular institutions...why are they getting it in church too?!?  Mike said it reminded him of his environmental law classes - at a secular college!!

Is this really what is lacking from our young peoples' catechesis??  Shouldn't we leave the enviro-craziness to our secular schools and preach in church what kids aren't hearing elsewhere?  Things like virtues, the sacraments (mainly the Eucharist), the Catechism, the BIBLE, for crying out loud?

Mike and I are going to discuss this in more detail tonight and yes, probably go into the church office and talk to the priest (yep, we're those people.  Poor Jack).  He'll get an earful about why we haven't attended their church in months, and why we most likely won't again.  And obviously why Jack won't attend VBS there in the future.

Seriously...please start teaching the Catholic religion at church again.  Because that's the only place they're going to hear about it.  Leave the worship of Gaia to the nuts.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

It's a...

BOY!!!  Yep...another one!  I was sure I was going to have the first girl on both mine and Mike's side!  Eh well...Jack wanted a brother and apparently he does always get what he wants!  And he says the next one will be a girl, so....

I am so totally relieved.  You all know I have been a nervous wreck, even with my weekly heartbeat checks.  I guess the heartbeat just tells me the baby is there, but doesn't necessarily let me know that everything is ok.  The closer today's u/s got, the more nervous I got.  Not for any reason except that the last one wasn't such great news.  But according to today's ultrasound, everything is A-OK!  Except that I have placenta previa.  Which, in the grand scheme of things, I'll take it.  They're bringing me back in a month and there's an 80% chance it will resolve itself by then.  Even if it never moves, the worst that could happen is that I need a c-section.  I never want to have a c-section, but as long as my baby is healthy, it's the least I'll worry about!  Any prayers that it moves would be appreciated, but like I said, I'll take it over the news I got last time!

In fact, the doctor told me that the incident of "vanishing twin" happens with 32% of pregnancies, which I thought was amazingly high.  And she said that's only the percentage they know about.  Most likely many of these instances are unknown because people don't have a reason to have an early term ultrasound, so the actual percentage is probably much higher than that!

I was going to post an ultrasound pic, but I remember how those made me feel for the last 4 years.  Maybe another time.  Aaahh!!  I love this kid so much!!

**The first time I posted this, I forgot to thank Jesus and Mary for a healthy baby, and for allowing me to finally be happy and relaxed about this pregnancy!  Thank you, Lord!!!  And I totally credit Saints Gianna and Rose for this pregnancy.  Thanks to them too, for interceding on my behalf!

And apologies for not having commented on blogs in awhile.  I was out of town last week, and still need to post a bunch of pictures from our active week in Indiana!